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Summary:
In this empowering episode, we are joined by the renowned workshop leader, energy healer, and sex and relationship coach, Rebekah Beneteau. With her rich experience and deep insights, Rebekah unveils the secrets to a more gratified relationship and fulfilling sex life. Tune in as we explore the transformative power of embracing authentic sexuality and the pathways to achieving boundless bliss in your relationships.
About the Guest:
Rebekah Beneteau is a nationally recognized workshop leader, energy healer, and sex and relationship coach. Through her former podcast, “The Ask Me Anything Love and Sex Show” on BlogTalkRadio.com, and her YouTube channel, she has empowered thousands to foster more gratifying relationships and enrich their sex lives. Rebekah is on a mission to transform the world by helping individuals embrace and express their authentic sexuality.
A free consultation call on How to Live a More
Orgasmic Life:
In her endeavor to promote a fulfilling sexual life, Rebekah offers a special program titled “5 Days to Better Orgasms for Women”. You can explore this transformative course here: https://pleasureevolution.com/product/5-days-to-better-orgasms-for-women-2/
Moreover, if you are inspired by Rebekah’s mission and wish to collaborate, you can join her affiliate program at the following link: https://pleasureevolution.com/affiliate-area/
Resources Mentioned:
1. 5 Days to Better Orgasms for Women – A transformative program by Rebekah Beneteau. Visit here
2. Rebekah’s Affiliate Program – Join the movement to promote authentic sexuality. Visit here
About the Host:
Introducing Saylor Cooper, an accomplished author and a true inspiration. Despite facing the challenges of living with a disability, Saylor has fearlessly pursued his dreams and emerged as a beacon of motivation for others. His journey in entrepreneurship, alongside his trusted ally Tyler, has propelled him to extraordinary heights.
At the core of Saylor’s mission lies an unwavering belief in the power of hard work and determination. As the creator and host of Real Variety Radio, Saylor has established a remarkable internet radio station that offers a diverse range of programming spanning every genre of music and shows.
Additionally, he has taken the helm of the Hope Without Sight Podcast, where he engages in thought-provoking interviews with individuals who have triumphed over adversity, becoming a source of inspiration to people around the globe.
Saylor’s ambitions extend far beyond his current accomplishments. He actively seeks opportunities to connect with fellow entrepreneurs and share their remarkable journeys at renowned networking events like Podapolooza and Speakers Playhouse. Through collaboration with speaking coaches, he is honing his skills to grace different stages and deliver his empowering message to diverse audiences.
But that is just the beginning of Saylor’s extraordinary aspirations. With plans to monetize his internet radio station and organize life coaching events, he aims to empower others in their pursuit of dreams. Furthermore, Saylor envisions a future filled with numerous literary works, including a captivating autobiography chronicling his own life and a collaborative masterpiece featuring the remarkable stories of his podcast guests.
Above all, Saylor’s ultimate goal is simple yet profound: he strives to demonstrate to individuals facing challenges that anything is possible when dreams are fueled by unwavering dedication and hard work. With Saylor blazing a trail of possibility, the potential for each and every one of us is boundless.
Join Saylor Cooper on this remarkable journey of empowerment and achievement, and discover that the power to transform lives resides within us all.
To connect with Saylor and learn more about his inspiring work, please visit his E-business card here: https://ovou.me/livefasetiyacehe
About the Co-host:
Tyler Evans is an integral part of the entrepreneurial journey of his best friend and business partner, Saylor Cooper. Despite facing his own unique challenges, Tyler is determined to make a difference in the world through his hard work and unwavering dedication.
As an active participant in the day-to-day operations of Real Variety Radio, Tyler plays a crucial role in the success of the internet radio station that offers diverse programming from all genres of music and shows. He’s also a key contributor to the Hope Without Sight Podcast, where he helps to bring inspiring guests who have overcome adversity to the forefront.
Tyler’s passion for entrepreneurship is matched only by his love of networking. He enjoys attending events like Podapolooza and Speakers Playhouse, where he can connect with fellow entrepreneurs and learn from their experiences. While Tyler may not have founded or created anything on his own just yet, he’s an important member of the team and his contributions to the venture are invaluable.
Looking to the future, Tyler shares Saylor’s vision of making a difference in people’s lives and inspiring others to pursue their dreams despite any challenges they may face. He’s excited about the possibility of monetizing the internet radio station and hosting life coaching events alongside Saylor to help others reach their full potential.
Tyler’s ultimate goal is to collaborate with Saylor on writing books that share their individual and joint experiences, including an autobiography about his own life. Together, they hope to demonstrate to the world that anything is possible if one has the courage to chase their dreams and put in the hard work necessary to achieve them. With Tyler’s unwavering determination and entrepreneurial spirit, there’s no doubt he’ll continue to make a positive impact on the world around him.
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Transcript
Hello everybody welcome to another episode of
Saylor Cooper:hope without sight with your host Saylor Cooper
Tyler Evans:and this is Tyler Evans.
Saylor Cooper:It's episode 50 Wow 50 episodes, and its episode
Saylor Cooper:title is unlocking authentic sexuality a transformative
Saylor Cooper:conversation with our guest Rebekah Beneteau. So before we
Saylor Cooper:get started, let me tell you about this guest so in this
Saylor Cooper:milestone 50th episode we're honoured to host a nationally
Saylor Cooper:recognised workshop leader, energy healer, and sex and
Saylor Cooper:relationship coach. Join us as we delve into a transformative
Saylor Cooper:conversation about embracing authentic sexuality, fostering
Saylor Cooper:fulfilment, fulfilling relationships in a journey to
Saylor Cooper:stop discovery. Please note, this episode may touch up on
Saylor Cooper:sensitive topics including traumatic sexual experiences,
Saylor Cooper:and less listener discretion is advised about a guest. Rebekah
Saylor Cooper:Beneteau has carved a niche as a nationally known workshop legal
Saylor Cooper:energy healing and sexting relationship coach. Through her
Saylor Cooper:former podcast the asked me anything love and sex show on
Saylor Cooper:blogtalkradio.com in a YouTube channel, Rebecca has empowered
Saylor Cooper:1000s to cultivate more gratifying relationships and sex
Saylor Cooper:lives. Her life's mission is monumental to transform the
Saylor Cooper:world by helping individuals embrace and express their
Saylor Cooper:authentic sexuality. In this episode, Rebekah shares her
Saylor Cooper:journey and the invaluable insights she has acquired over
Saylor Cooper:the years, offering listeners a roadmap to navigate the path to
Saylor Cooper:self discovery in authentic living. Please welcome, Rebekah
Saylor Cooper:Beneteau. Rebecca, how you doing today?
Rebekah Beneteau:Hi, Saylor. Thank you for that beautiful
Rebekah Beneteau:introduction. I am so honoured to be here for your 50th
Rebekah Beneteau:episode. Amazing that.
Saylor Cooper:So we met on speakers Playhouse. Yes. So I
Saylor Cooper:imagine you getting here has not been easy. It's not been a
Saylor Cooper:straight path like many of us, right?
Rebekah Beneteau:Yeah. Yes. I'm not sure there is a straight
Rebekah Beneteau:path through life. But I was always a very outgoing kid. A
Rebekah Beneteau:performer I guess my dad was very comical. My family told a
Rebekah Beneteau:lot of jokes. So be I think being a speaker is kind of in my
Rebekah Beneteau:blood, and sharing, you know, sharing what I know and helping
Rebekah Beneteau:others.
Saylor Cooper:That is, because that's what we want to do to
Saylor Cooper:highlight sharing what we know and help others to see I'm
Saylor Cooper:becoming well, I'm going to be delivering some inspirational
Saylor Cooper:keynotes. I've also joined Toastmasters and we are doing
Saylor Cooper:some live coaching events, which we'll get into later on. But
Saylor Cooper:that So tell me, how did you live start? Because it hasn't
Saylor Cooper:been pretty easy?
Rebekah Beneteau:Well, my life started in New York City. And we
Rebekah Beneteau:had a fairly typical middle class family. And I but my
Rebekah Beneteau:father was a compulsive eater, and a rager. And so I spent a
Rebekah Beneteau:lot of my life tiptoeing around making sure I didn't set him
Rebekah Beneteau:off. And I also, I don't know if anyone listening can relate to
Rebekah Beneteau:this, I somehow got the basic feeling that I was wrong. Like,
Rebekah Beneteau:I should have been born a boy, that was the first thing. And in
Rebekah Beneteau:my family, you would come home with a bee and my dad would or
Rebekah Beneteau:my mom would say, why isn't it a B plus, you know, and then I'd
Rebekah Beneteau:come home with the B plus, and it would be why isn't today. So
Rebekah Beneteau:I really, as a kid was always striving to do it right and be
Rebekah Beneteau:the best and I danced. I went to ballet school, and I played
Rebekah Beneteau:girls baseball league softball league. I was more of a human
Rebekah Beneteau:doing than a human being Saylor, because I felt I had something
Rebekah Beneteau:to prove just to deserve to be alive.
Saylor Cooper:So you had to constantly prove yourself
Saylor Cooper:basically.
Rebekah Beneteau:Mm hmm. Yeah, that was that was the message I
Rebekah Beneteau:took. And I think if there's anything I really want to convey
Rebekah Beneteau:to listeners, is that things happen. Things always happen
Rebekah Beneteau:with varying degrees of difficulty and failure.
Rebekah Beneteau:As a perfect example, right? It's what you do with those
Rebekah Beneteau:things that matters. It's what we part of how we develop is in
Rebekah Beneteau:is because of what that thing, but we can always choose
Rebekah Beneteau:something different. Right? Right. So I had a very judged I
Rebekah Beneteau:became a very self judgmental person, I inherited that. And I
Rebekah Beneteau:thought the only way I would get better is if I was constantly
Rebekah Beneteau:judging myself. And in these last few years, that became
Rebekah Beneteau:really important, I realised that I was not going to get
Rebekah Beneteau:anywhere by finding myself wrong. Instead, I turned it
Rebekah Beneteau:around. What was I doing, right? Where could I celebrate what I
Rebekah Beneteau:was getting? Right? Where can I celebrate my life? Instead of
Rebekah Beneteau:always looking for what I was doing wrong and fixing it?
Saylor Cooper:Exactly. And because you should never compare
Saylor Cooper:yourself to other people. That's the worst thing you could do
Saylor Cooper:always know that as long as you're doing your best. That's
Saylor Cooper:what counts.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yeah, yeah, absolutely. So the thing that I
Rebekah Beneteau:really, that I mentioned to you when I offered to be on the
Rebekah Beneteau:podcast was, when I was eight years old, an adult man did some
Rebekah Beneteau:sexual things with me. And not good. However, you know, and
Rebekah Beneteau:that should never happen to any child. And be. And because of
Rebekah Beneteau:that, I developed some some ideas about that it wasn't safe
Rebekah Beneteau:for other people to see me. It wasn't safe for me to be vibrant
Rebekah Beneteau:and happy. Right? He took me when I was out in the playground
Rebekah Beneteau:I was playing. And so I got this idea that I had to be small, I
Rebekah Beneteau:had to be invisible, and that my role was to help other people be
Rebekah Beneteau:successful, fulfilled sexually, but not me. And because what
Rebekah Beneteau:happens when you are introduced to sexuality at a young age, you
Rebekah Beneteau:don't have the skills to integrate that experience.
Rebekah Beneteau:There's a lot of energy. There's a lot of excitement, exuberance,
Rebekah Beneteau:running through your body. Children can be turned on, but
Rebekah Beneteau:they immediately think there's something wrong with them for
Rebekah Beneteau:feeling that way. Because they have no context for it.
Saylor Cooper:Because they know that that's not normal.
Saylor Cooper:Basically.
Rebekah Beneteau:They Well, I think they get the feeling that
Rebekah Beneteau:it's not normal, it's not okay. That some that if anyone knew
Rebekah Beneteau:about it, they would get in trouble. In fact, the person who
Rebekah Beneteau:does it often says this has to be our secret. Because if anyone
Rebekah Beneteau:knows you'll be in trouble.
Saylor Cooper:It's a way to manipulate because I've heard
Saylor Cooper:when children have been exploited, like, with like,
Saylor Cooper:sexual crimes. They think they owe that they think the older
Saylor Cooper:than they are when they're really not.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yes, yeah, that's true to very early on, I
Rebekah Beneteau:became like, everything I did, I did it by myself, I had to take
Rebekah Beneteau:care of myself. I had to emotionally take care of my
Rebekah Beneteau:family. But I really don't want to leave the story stuck there.
Rebekah Beneteau:Because there's also a part of me that is very strongly a
Rebekah Beneteau:healer. I am an energy healer, I discovered that capacity to be
Rebekah Beneteau:able to see other people's auras to be able to see what people do
Rebekah Beneteau:with their energy when they're stressed. I can look at a person
Rebekah Beneteau:and see disease inside their body. So I'm I'm I'm what they
Rebekah Beneteau:call a medical intuitive. And I think I knew even then, that I
Rebekah Beneteau:could provide healing for this man, this person. He saw that in
Rebekah Beneteau:me, I and I rose to the challenge. So on some level and
Rebekah Beneteau:this is not to blame the victim story, but for anybody who's
Rebekah Beneteau:been abused, you aren't abused because you're weak. You're
Rebekah Beneteau:actually been abused because you are the strongest person in the
Rebekah Beneteau:room.
Saylor Cooper:Wow, that's a compelling message right there.
Saylor Cooper:So you're providing healing to the man who did you wrong even
Saylor Cooper:though he did you wrong now? Why would you want to do that? If
Saylor Cooper:you really hate him for what he did to you?
Rebekah Beneteau:I don't hate him for what he did for me, too.
Saylor Cooper:We often we often do hate people who've done this
Saylor Cooper:wrong. I know it's a normal emotion. I've been there not to
Saylor Cooper:do that. You know,
Rebekah Beneteau:it's certainly the first place that we go right
Rebekah Beneteau:this anger this resentment, you did me wrong, but what if what
Rebekah Beneteau:if you could look at it and ask yourself the question, what is
Rebekah Beneteau:the gift here that I'm not seeing? The gift Ssylor was the
Rebekah Beneteau:because that happened to me and I overcome it. I can now help
Rebekah Beneteau:hundreds of other people overcome it. And those people
Rebekah Beneteau:help help other people. So, if that had never happened to me, I
Rebekah Beneteau:don't know what my life today would be like, totally
Rebekah Beneteau:different. And I don't necessarily know for a fact that
Rebekah Beneteau:it would be better than what my life is. So I choose to believe
Rebekah Beneteau:that everything that has happened to me up to now was a
Rebekah Beneteau:gift. Sometimes a gift and shitty wrapping paper that once
Rebekah Beneteau:you unwrap it has brought me to the power and the the amazing
Rebekah Beneteau:life I have now.
Saylor Cooper:Yes, it's a blessing in disguise, because
Saylor Cooper:you get to do so much with it. Because Tyler take example for
Saylor Cooper:our gifts. If Well, shed some light we were born early weren't
Saylor Cooper:expected to survive. We had gifts, right?
Tyler Evans:Oh, yeah. But for before, I mentioned that, you
Tyler Evans:know, your story kind of reminds me of the gospel of Jesus Christ
Tyler Evans:to a point because think about it. He was done wrong. He, you
Tyler Evans:know, under sweat, I believe, you know, he died on the cross.
Tyler Evans:And he didn't have to. He was he was blamed for everyone's sins,
Tyler Evans:and yet he was innocent. And yet, what you're doing is very
Tyler Evans:similar, even though you're not mentioning Biblical stuff.
Tyler Evans:You're not mentioning any of that. But in a sense, it's
Tyler Evans:similar.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yeah. And what were his words on the cross?
Rebekah Beneteau:Forgive them father, they know not what they do.
Tyler Evans:Exactly. And, and you know, and going back to what
Tyler Evans:Saylor was just mentioning about us being born three months
Tyler Evans:premature, you know, it is a blessing because God allowed us
Tyler Evans:to survive, despite the odds. And my brother, you know, he and
Tyler Evans:I are twins too. And his eyes reversed just like his twin
Tyler Evans:sisters, as reversed. And our story is very similar. In fact,
Tyler Evans:we saw the same doctor in Detroit, Michigan. me and saylor
Tyler Evans:did, Two years apart. Two years apart. Yeah. Huh. And it's
Tyler Evans:really amazing. Wow, your story, you know, it's, it shows it
Tyler Evans:demonstrates to me that everyone in this world has something that
Tyler Evans:was bad that happened us because we live in what's called a
Tyler Evans:sinful world, a fallen world. That's what I believe. And, you
Tyler Evans:know, there's nothing? Well,at first, it seems like things, you
Tyler Evans:know, are bad. But in disguise, it's actually a good thing. To a
Tyler Evans:point, because think about, you know, 2020 20 with COVID. It was
Tyler Evans:bad, right? But it also exposed a lot of corruption, and stuff
Tyler Evans:that took place, and we're getting past that we're getting
Tyler Evans:better. And now we know how to handle all that stuff. You
Tyler Evans:should do. I mean, it may seem bad, but in a way it it's a good
Tyler Evans:thing.
Saylor Cooper:And with that, how about we take a break from
Saylor Cooper:the podcast itself? Tyler, you ready? Let's do some
Saylor Cooper:advertising.
Tyler Evans:All right. So
Saylor Cooper:me and Tyler, were putting this community
Saylor Cooper:together. I put it in the chat we're trying to host was putting
Saylor Cooper:together and I think you'd be a great asset to this community,
Saylor Cooper:Rebeka, will put together what's called the blissful life
Saylor Cooper:community, when we're gonna facilitate the intolerable
Saylor Cooper:facilitate and teach people on how to live a blissful life,
Saylor Cooper:even in challenging times.
Tyler Evans:Absolutely. And also with that, we also are
Tyler Evans:going to host a lifter spirit party. Is that right?
Saylor Cooper:Yeah.
Tyler Evans:Yeah. Initially, we were going to do something, it
Tyler Evans:was called the mastermind in the past, but things changed. We
Tyler Evans:kind of it kind of fell through a little bit. But that's okay.
Tyler Evans:We revamped it. We're fixing it up. And now it's going to be the
Tyler Evans:blissful life community instead of the mastermind. Yes. And, and
Tyler Evans:what's cool is, our motto is hope without sight to a blissful
Tyler Evans:life. And so what that basically means is, you know, hope without
Tyler Evans:sight, you know, we're, what about blind, but it's more than
Tyler Evans:that. It's way more than that. It's a metaphor of, hey,
Tyler Evans:sometimes in life, it seems like there's no hope. But despite
Tyler Evans:that, there's always a light at the end of the tunnel. And
Tyler Evans:that's the sight part. In other words, it's metaphorical. It's
Tyler Evans:not just, oh, I'm blind. There's no hope for me because I'm
Tyler Evans:blind. No, that's not what it's about. Ultimately, it's about
Tyler Evans:the fact that it's a metaphor. And that there's always hope, no
Tyler Evans:matter what you're going through in life, because ultimately, you
Tyler Evans:know, You know, I always like to go back to Scripture. And it
Tyler Evans:says hope does not disappoint. In other words, true hope,
Tyler Evans:because hope is found in Christ Jesus. That's what I believe.
Tyler Evans:But yeah, not everyone believes that that's okay. But yeah.
Tyler Evans:Yeah, basically, a blissful life means, hey, no matter where
Tyler Evans:you've come from, no matter where you've been, no matter
Tyler Evans:what you were born into, you can always reach your limits, which
Tyler Evans:I believe is limitless. Especially because we live, in
Tyler Evans:my opinion, in the greatest nation on the face of the earth,
Tyler Evans:despite its flaws, despite the fact that we are imperfect. In
Tyler Evans:fact, in our constitution says, We the People of the United
Tyler Evans:States in order to form a more perfect union, well, what is
Tyler Evans:that more perfect union? Its liberty, its freedom. And its
Tyler Evans:republicanism, meaning small are, you know, republicanism?
Tyler Evans:Yeah, do that, hey, we can all be represented, and that we
Tyler Evans:control our system of government, not the other way
Tyler Evans:around. So yeah,
Saylor Cooper:exactly, exactly. You just have to, you have to
Saylor Cooper:live the best life you can. And the programmes I'm putting in my
Saylor Cooper:chat, or the lead magnet, if you text that number of bliss,
Saylor Cooper:282-481-6806. There's a mini course where you could learn to
Saylor Cooper:start living a blissful life. And please share it with others.
Saylor Cooper:Absolutely.
Rebekah Beneteau:Beautiful. Yeah, I absolutely. Bliss is one
Rebekah Beneteau:of my favourite words, and I believe that bliss is always
Rebekah Beneteau:accessible. Yeah, you know, Tyler, you really before brought
Rebekah Beneteau:up a couple of things that I think are the tools, you know,
Rebekah Beneteau:number one is compassion. You know, I have compassion for the
Rebekah Beneteau:people that I quote, unquote, feel wronged me, I have
Rebekah Beneteau:compassion for myself. And then next, you have you go beyond
Rebekah Beneteau:compassion, to gratitude. I'm grateful. Then, you can see, we
Rebekah Beneteau:often cloud our eyes by looking, you know, you'd like you said,
Rebekah Beneteau:metaphorically, we can be blind to our, our gifts to the joy
Rebekah Beneteau:that's available now. Because we're only I'm always looking
Rebekah Beneteau:back at our past. Right? With regret. So being present, also,
Rebekah Beneteau:like not in your past, and not in your future, but just here
Rebekah Beneteau:right now allows you to access that bliss. Yes.
Tyler Evans:Oh, yeah. And you know, it's interesting. You
Tyler Evans:know, it would be cool to actually come up with an acronym
Tyler Evans:for bliss. I don't know what it would be. But something tells me
Tyler Evans:that there should be an acronym be li SS. But some, but it's
Tyler Evans:just amazing how, like, we just simply not worry about the past
Tyler Evans:what God was. And that we can move on and say, hey, you know,
Tyler Evans:that was them. This is now so we need to learn to forgive. Not
Tyler Evans:necessarily forget. People say Oh, forgiven forget. No, that's
Tyler Evans:not it. Forgive. But that doesn't mean, you have to like
Tyler Evans:them. It doesn't even when you have to be friends with them.
Saylor Cooper:Yeah. The issue I'm having is that trust I don't
Saylor Cooper:trust, right. People, you know, well, one person well, we're not
Saylor Cooper:gonna really get into but yeah, there's one person that we know
Saylor Cooper:that you and I know, that we're having issues with. And that's
Saylor Cooper:something for another day, right?
Saylor Cooper:We can relate to this, you know? Yeah.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yeah.
Saylor Cooper:So, put my information in the chat about
Saylor Cooper:our programmes. There's the lifter spirit party, which is
Saylor Cooper:complimentary, its fleet. Everybody can hardly lift our
Saylor Cooper:spirits together. And the blissful life community, which
Saylor Cooper:is a membership, it's $25 a month. If you want to join, and
Saylor Cooper:it's a more in depth. It's like a mastermind, where we're going
Saylor Cooper:to teach each other including you Abeka. You can teach other
Saylor Cooper:members on how to live life more blissfully, right.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yeah, absolutely.
Tyler Evans:And what's cool, tell us more Saylor, can you pay
Tyler Evans:a flat fee? And let's say you wanted to pay the full year
Tyler Evans:price of 300?
Saylor Cooper:Absolutely. Yes, you can pay before you have a
Saylor Cooper:blissful life community too. So we were hoping to launch it this
Saylor Cooper:month. But that's why I'm glad that you are on my podcast so
Saylor Cooper:you could spread this around and we can grow our community and we
Saylor Cooper:can get more followers so we can join this people can join this
Saylor Cooper:community.
Tyler Evans:So what exactly tell the audience what exactly
Tyler Evans:will this community entail? Is it like a class a seminar?
Saylor Cooper:Yeah to seminar to community, we'll just common
Saylor Cooper:do some masterminding.
Tyler Evans:Do you think maybe the first one there could be an
Tyler Evans:icebreaker meaning like, hey, introduce yourself?
Saylor Cooper:Yes, that could be a good very good icebreaker.
Saylor Cooper:Yes. And same with the lift your spirit party, was that right?
Saylor Cooper:Like the lift your spirit party is like a class too. But it's
Saylor Cooper:like an introduction to what's to come. And so for those, for
Saylor Cooper:those who are interested in want to partake in the mastermind, or
Saylor Cooper:shall we say the blissful life community rather, like a
Saylor Cooper:mastermind, but community, they can pay and it's a membership.
Saylor Cooper:And so basically, there's no commitment, right? You can pay
Saylor Cooper:it anytime. Let's say you decide, hey, you pay for a
Saylor Cooper:month, you just check it out how you figure Hey, listen, for me.
Saylor Cooper:That's okay. No, no, no commitment, no contract, no
Saylor Cooper:questions asked, and you're good.
Saylor Cooper:And those who can afford to go was working on some sponsorship
Saylor Cooper:sponsorships, where y'all can gig on free of charge for those
Saylor Cooper:who truly can't afford it. So it's still evolving. But please
Saylor Cooper:spread the word and help us grow it.
Tyler Evans:Absolutely, we would really appreciate it. And,
Tyler Evans:Rebecca, if you know any friends who are interested, you can
Tyler Evans:spread the word as well.
Rebekah Beneteau:All righty.
Saylor Cooper:Well, your future so your future goals, you don't
Saylor Cooper:have a podcast anymore. So you're a speaker, like what made
Saylor Cooper:you attend speakers Playhouse?
Rebekah Beneteau:Well, actually, I am a coach now. And
Rebekah Beneteau:I work with people one on one and also with couples. And I do
Rebekah Beneteau:something called the Five Days to Better orgasms challenge for
Rebekah Beneteau:women.
Saylor Cooper:Oh, wow.
Rebekah Beneteau:And that is coming up September 11. To the
Rebekah Beneteau:15th. It's online, it's completely free. So anybody can
Rebekah Beneteau:join. And I don't know if you want me to put a link to that in
Rebekah Beneteau:the chat or, yes, put your information in the chat just
Rebekah Beneteau:like I did. And I do a challenge every month with a slightly
Rebekah Beneteau:different theme. So that's the theme for this month for
Rebekah Beneteau:September. And I would be delighted if anyone from here
Rebekah Beneteau:wanted to attend. And I came to the Speaker's Playhouse really
Rebekah Beneteau:looking for possibilities. Because as you can see, I love
Rebekah Beneteau:to talk about this stuff. It's my favourite thing. I did attend
Rebekah Beneteau:Toastmasters for many years. It's amazing programme. And I
Rebekah Beneteau:Yeah, you know, this is the way to reach more people. As you can
Rebekah Beneteau:see, I no longer believe that I should be invisible in order to
Rebekah Beneteau:stay safe. Wow, I'm willing to be seen and to talk about a
Rebekah Beneteau:topic that is challenging for a lot of people. It's very
Rebekah Beneteau:sensitive. But I do believe that God gave us a body for a reason.
Rebekah Beneteau:You know, the joy and having our body is actually a sacred thing.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yes.
Rebekah Beneteau:So it's, you know, finding ways to express that to have someone
Rebekah Beneteau:to share it with. To overcome some of the shame that has been
Rebekah Beneteau:instilled in us, by our religion, by our culture, about
Rebekah Beneteau:music about being a body, all of those things, having a body
Rebekah Beneteau:using your body. You gotta use it appropriately, of course.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yes, of course.
Saylor Cooper:And so yeah, please share all the information
Saylor Cooper:you got. So we could include this in the show notes. And as
Saylor Cooper:mentioned, I sent you my information, but please save the
Saylor Cooper:chat too.
Rebekah Beneteau:I will do that for sure.
Saylor Cooper:Yeah. So what are your future goals? You're gonna
Saylor Cooper:do speaking when you have a future goals you have?
Rebekah Beneteau:My future goal is to create a world where
Rebekah Beneteau:pleasure and kindness are the standard. Amen. Yes, in fact, I
Rebekah Beneteau:often call myself a bliss mistress. So I'll tell you very
Rebekah Beneteau:quickly, I went to a four year school for energy healers called
Rebekah Beneteau:the prepper, Brendon school for healing. And when I graduated
Rebekah Beneteau:part of the ceremony was that you had to go on stage and
Rebekah Beneteau:announce your intention. And I thought my intention was going
Rebekah Beneteau:to be to be come back and become a teacher of their material. And
Rebekah Beneteau:instead what popped out of my mouth. Was that my intent
Rebekah Beneteau:mission in the world is to embody bliss and help others do
Rebekah Beneteau:the same.
Saylor Cooper:Amen. I like using the word blissed to,
Rebekah Beneteau:which is why I wanted to be on your podcast. I
Rebekah Beneteau:saw a kindred spirit.
Saylor Cooper:Yes.
Tyler Evans:That sounds like good spirits as well.
Saylor Cooper:And I'm gonna be giving ammo, Elena, I'm sure you
Saylor Cooper:heard a flight King, the mental health comedian. I'm meeting
Saylor Cooper:with him today. One. We're working on my speaking career
Saylor Cooper:until it gets to where it needs to be until we die trying and I
Saylor Cooper:hope to give around $5,000 billable keynote. Nice. Yeah,
Saylor Cooper:very nice.
Rebekah Beneteau:. I mean, you asked my intention is to travel
Rebekah Beneteau:the world teaching workshops. And what else publish a book.
Saylor Cooper:I publish a book too. Yeah. My books in the chat.
Saylor Cooper:Mm hmm.
Tyler Evans:So yeah, maybe call it maybe that college you went
Tyler Evans:to could be a sponsor? We shall see. Yes. We shall see if it's
Tyler Evans:still there. I mean, I don't know. Yeah, how you should be
Tyler Evans:thinking. We shall see. We shall see. Yeah, but yeah, I'm glad
Tyler Evans:you have big goals. So anyway, and it's it's wonderful that,
Tyler Evans:yep. Anything else you want to share on the podcast? Because
Tyler Evans:believe it or not, we had back to back episodes detailed
Tyler Evans:record, we have another one coming up at noon. And I know
Tyler Evans:your time is limited to so do you have anything else you want
Tyler Evans:to share?
Rebekah Beneteau:share? It's never too late to have a happy
Rebekah Beneteau:childhood.
Tyler Evans:Amen. Oh,
Rebekah Beneteau:or even a happy? It's all in your it's all
Rebekah Beneteau:in your perspective? And what can you choose today to create
Rebekah Beneteau:the future that you would like to have? Not in spite of, but
Rebekah Beneteau:thanks to the past that you've already had?
Tyler Evans:And, you know, even if you had a bad childhood, you
Tyler Evans:can still have a wonderful adulthood. Yes, you can. Because
Tyler Evans:a childhood should not define me. You know, we should be like,
Tyler Evans:You know what? That was the past. I learned from it. Now I'm
Tyler Evans:stronger because of it. Yeah. And that's what bad
Tyler Evans:circumstances can do for people. It makes them stronger and so
Tyler Evans:amazing. So yeah,
Rebekah Beneteau:I'm gonna say something really radical. And
Rebekah Beneteau:some ways I think the two of you have an advantage over sighted
Rebekah Beneteau:people when it comes to romance.
Saylor Cooper:We lack of voices, people with voices were
Rebekah Beneteau:too many people too many people take what
Rebekah Beneteau:they see with their eyes as what they want. And they have a
Rebekah Beneteau:picture of who they can be with and they never get to the
Rebekah Beneteau:essence of who a person is. They never get to whether that person
Rebekah Beneteau:will actually be a contribution be nurturing, be loving, they're
Rebekah Beneteau:all about Oh, that one's pretty to me that one's handsome. And
Rebekah Beneteau:and you can you got to look at other things that are actually
Rebekah Beneteau:more lasting.
Saylor Cooper:As we look at the souls and the kind hearts and of
Saylor Cooper:course women's voices. You know what? I said, my, my sex life. I
Saylor Cooper:went, I was born here in Texas, Austin when sweet talking voice
Saylor Cooper:Texas school myself too. And I know find who you know.
Tyler Evans:And, you know, it's interesting as we've not only
Tyler Evans:rely on voices to determine if a woman's attractive, maybe
Tyler Evans:there's smell or touch, right? So like, let's say you want to
Tyler Evans:find someone and, and she's okay with it. You go and you rub your
Tyler Evans:finger into her hair and things like that, you know? Yeah. And
Tyler Evans:you're like, this is interesting.
Rebekah Beneteau:And I don't know if you guys are read
Rebekah Beneteau:Braille, but I would imagine Oh, absolutely. I do. reading
Rebekah Beneteau:braille gives you very sensitive fingertips, which can be very
Rebekah Beneteau:useful in a sensual environment.
Tyler Evans:Like massage. massages, good.
Rebekah Beneteau:Yeah, yeah, exactly. But once again, it's
Rebekah Beneteau:always that viewpoint. Is this the cursor? Is this a gift? What
Rebekah Beneteau:can I do with this that will benefit me and everyone around
Rebekah Beneteau:me so Exactly, exactly. Exactly.
Saylor Cooper:know what, we won't go into too much but
Saylor Cooper:Tyler, you and I get excited, right?
Tyler Evans:Next Yeah, but you know, and you know what's
Tyler Evans:interesting? I was gonna say you don't have to see to see. You
Tyler Evans:get my drift. Oh, Because think about it, you know, you know,
Tyler Evans:sighted people they take for granted their sight. They can
Tyler Evans:drive. We can't. But hopefully one day that's changing where it
Tyler Evans:won't matter if you're blind or not, you're driving, they don't
Tyler Evans:matter. You wouldn't matter if you have epilepsy, it won't
Tyler Evans:matter if you have this or this or this. You can drive. Yeah.
Tyler Evans:But well, but some people have reservations about it, because
Tyler Evans:what if it goes wrong? What if this? What if this what if this,
Tyler Evans:because it could it could go wrong? You never know. But we
Tyler Evans:shall see. But like I said, you don't have to see to see you
Tyler Evans:don't have to see to read or write down. Because you have all
Tyler Evans:the assistive technology, which I'm telling you right now. I
Tyler Evans:never thought in my wildest dreams, I would have a small
Tyler Evans:little device in the palm of my hand, a phone that literally did
Tyler Evans:everything a computer does. Never thought, just 20 years
Tyler Evans:ago, I never thought I would ever see to live I would ever
Tyler Evans:live to see that particular day. I knew thanks for getting
Tyler Evans:digital. But I did not know it'd be this good this fast. Yes,
Tyler Evans:amazing. Really is.
Rebekah Beneteau:We live in a really amazing world.
Tyler Evans:Yes, we do with I mean, heck, in the 60s, we land
Tyler Evans:on the moon and even JFK was like, Hey, we choose to land on
Tyler Evans:the moon, not because it's easy, but because it's hard. We don't
Tyler Evans:want to do things easy. We want it to be hard and challenging.
Tyler Evans:But also inspirational. You know? Exactly. Yeah. It's so it
Tyler Evans:makes me tear up a little bit. If you have nothing else.
Saylor Cooper:Rebecca, would you say it's time for a
Saylor Cooper:customary ending? Tyler? Yes, indeed.
Tyler Evans:So what do you say to people? who feel they have no
Tyler Evans:hope and don't know where to turn?
Rebekah Beneteau:Hmm, what would I say to people? Can you
Rebekah Beneteau:find one thing? To appreciate? Yes. And then after that, find
Rebekah Beneteau:one more thing to appreciate. And put your focus on what's
Rebekah Beneteau:light? Yes. Not what's not what's heavy, and you will get
Rebekah Beneteau:more lightness? Because it? Yeah, I'll cut it off there. I
Rebekah Beneteau:could say more. I could talk about that and other 10 minutes.
Rebekah Beneteau:But all let's leave them with that.
Tyler Evans:Oh, yeah. Well, the way I see it is think of all in
Tyler Evans:the past in our history, and just our history of US history,
Tyler Evans:all the challenges we have overcome as a country from
Tyler Evans:slavery, to segregation to all of it, and how we have come so
Tyler Evans:far. And people have bled and died so that we can live in
Tyler Evans:freedom. And they didn't think that there was any hope back in
Tyler Evans:that day. In fact, we didn't know if we would even survive
Tyler Evans:back in the 1860s during the American Civil War, but we did
Tyler Evans:because of men courageous men and yes women too. who are
Tyler Evans:willing to die or who said you know what, slavery is evil. It's
Tyler Evans:wicked and it must be ended and it did not because of government
Tyler Evans:but because of people it showed dead Yeah, there you go. Now I'm
Tyler Evans:starting to sound like Reagan but anyway
Saylor Cooper:Wow. Everybody please give it up for with
Saylor Cooper:Rebekah Beneteau on episode 50 help with help without site that
Saylor Cooper:backup always continue to promote bliss just like we are.
Saylor Cooper:Yeah, thanks so much for being on the show.
Rebekah Beneteau:Thank you. Thank you both. It's really fun
Rebekah Beneteau:and inspirational.
Saylor Cooper:Everybody stateless said everybody said
Saylor Cooper:last and live life with list raining down so clean.
Rebekah Beneteau:I'll tell you what I always say do what gets
Rebekah Beneteau:your panties wet.
Tyler Evans:Yeah.
Rebekah Beneteau:I am not wearing any panties. Just do
Rebekah Beneteau:what excites you. The
Tyler Evans:shower whatever it is, which I took one today and
Tyler Evans:it felt good.
Saylor Cooper:Stay blessed everybody. All right.
Tyler Evans:Bye bye. Bye bye.